Adventures of Cloth Diapering

I've been meaning to write this post for quite a while, but I'm glad I wasn't able to get to it before now because the extra time has allowed me to confirm my opinions on the different kinds of cloth diapers I am using.

But let's start at the beginning. Why use cloth diapers?

I do care about the environment, and saving money is always a plus, but the key motivator for me to make the change to cloth diapers was the health of my baby.

Now, before I step on this current soap box of mine, just know that I used disposable diapers on my first child and what I write is out of love and wanting to share knowledge! There are so many reasons once you start researching this issue, so for now I will just list three of my health concerns about disposables.

1) Disposable diapers can cause asthma and respiratory problems because of the chemical off-gases from the diapers.

2) The super absorbent chemical in disposable diapers(sodium polyacrylate) is extremely toxic to babies. Sodium polyacrylate was also used in tampons until 1985 when it was removed because women left their tampons in for too long and contracted "toxic shock syndrome" which lead to fevers, rashes, even death. This is the chemical that forms the gel beads on your baby's bottom.

3) Dioxin is a byproduct of bleaching paper. It is the most toxic of all cancer linked chemicals. It can also cause liver disease, immune system suppression, and genetic damage in lab animals. Read about what the Environmental Protection Agency(EPA) has to say about it here.

So let's move on to cloth diapers.

It was an idea I had been interested in, but I was intimated by the unknown, overwhelmed, and just plain busy. My sister-in-law told me about this great little boutique in Houston where they hold cloth diapering classes (www.bebeverde.com).

I went, I listened, I was convinced!

I bought two different kinds on the spot. I now have three different kinds. I was interested in different aspects of the different diapers so I wanted to try several and settle on my favorite.

All three types of diapers are by Bum Genius. I have the flips, the 3.0 or "pocket diaper", and the Organic All-in-One.

So, I will start with what I like about how all three work.

1)**I have not had one single leak!!** The covers are excellent. I have had no leaks from the front, back, or legs of the covers. This is huge. This is massively important. For parents who have had to clean not only the baby's bottom, but also their back, their outfit, your outfit, the bed, the changing mat etc. this is a wonderful thing.

2) They are all more absorbent than disposable diapers.

3) They all "grow" with your baby using a snap system.

4) They are all cute. Yes, this matters.

Now to compare:

Most Absorbent:

3.0 pocket diapers. They definitely keep the baby dry the longest. I definitely recommend these for overnight use. The other two are also absorbent but her bottom gets wet more quickly. The Flips need to be checked and changed most often. The Organic Cotton All-in-One does not pull moisture away from the baby like the other two do(because they use a micro fiber terry cloth) and therefore it also needs to be changed pretty quickly after the baby is wet.

Easiest to clean:

Flips. The wet diapers do not need to be "cleaned". They simply get dropped in the diaper pail. So, we are only talking about soiled diapers here. Because you are only dealing with an insert with the Flip diapers they are much easier to spray off. The covers on the other two diapers, and the multiple layers they have make cleaning a little more difficult.

Staining:

Poop stains. It's just a fact. If you rinse them out well and wash them the same day the staining is minimal, but it is still going to happen to some extent. To reduce staining you can wring the soiled diapers out after spraying them with the bum genius sprayer.

Washing:

Washing instructions are the same for all the diapers. It is basically rinse cold, wash hot, double cold rinse. Detergent use is almost zero. A little goes a long way and too much messes up the absorbency of the diapers. Bleach, fragrances, and fabric softeners should never be used when washing diapers.

Drying:

The Organic All-in-One diapers take twice as long to dry as the Flips and the 3.0(which both have inserts separate from their covers which line dry only). The 3.0 covers need to be wiped out before re-stuffing because even after line drying them all night the inside of the "pocket" is still damp. I was frustrated with these at first but the outside of the 3.0 cover and the liner that goes against the baby dries quickly so if you just wipe out the pocket they are ready to go in about 45 min. The Flip covers dry very quickly(approx. 30 min).

Trim/Slim Fit:

The Organic All-in-One is the most slim, the Filps come in second, and the 3.0 are definitely the bulkiest. They all fit fine under her outfits though!

Snaps Vs. Velcro:

The snaps are harder to secure on a rolly polly baby, but I am not sure yet if they will have a longer "life" than the velcro. Right now, the velcro works extremely well, but will it be as adhesive in 2 years? We shall see.

Prep:

The Organic All-in-Ones need no preparation, they are ready to go and are very similar to a disposable diaper in this way. The 3.0 pocket diapers need to have the inserts stuffed in them. This was not as easy as I thought it would be, but I got the hang of it and they are worth it! The flips are very quick and easy to place the insert in the flaps of the cover.

On the Go:

I am an active mama. I was a little intimidated about changing cloth diapers when I go out, but it really isn't a big deal at all. I have a wet bag, so I just drop the diaper in, and add it to the pail when I get home. No leaks. No smell.

Rashes or dryness:

I use Organic Coconut oil. Since it is a natural oil it doesn't keep the diapers from being absorbent.

The Learning Curve:

Having used disposable diapers before the biggest learning curve for me was remembering to change the baby even though she didn't look/feel wet or dirty. With disposable diapers it was always obvious to me from the look or feel of the diaper if she needed a change, with the cloth diapers I had to do the finger check to establish if she was wet. As a result, her bottom got a little red sometimes until I remembered to change her more consistently.

Another learning curve for me was using the diaper sprayer. That thing has some serious power behind it and only needs to BARELY be turned on. It is a mini power sprayer. I turned it too far once and the spray bounced off the diaper and onto the wall nearest the toilet and the floor. Fun. Still, I would rather spray than stick my hands in the toilet!

So what's my favorite?

I have a "favorite" cloth diaper for different things. I like all three, but to sum it up.... Flips for frequent changes at home(they are the easiest to clean/make the least to wash and dry), 3.0 pocket diapers for overnight, on-the-go and babysitting(most absorbent and similar to disposable), and the Organic all-in-one would also be good for babysitters. The all-in-one is my least favorite. If I had to pick just one? The 3.0.

Husband's favorite?

He likes the 3.0 diapers. The velcro is the quickest/easiest to secure and it goes on most like a disposable.

Feel free to ask questions or leave comments... I may add some more info later!

Definitions from Proverbs: Part 1-Fool or Wise?

It is humbling.

I've been trying to read a Proverb a day for a little over a year now, and I've been noticing some reoccurring themes that I am beginning to study. I noticed there are some really strong statements about how a fool behaves, and how a wise person behaves. I wondered what God's definition of a fool/wise person was. I wondered which one I acted more like. Obviously, I hope to be wise, to live as one who is wise, so in (the many) areas where I have fallen short I go to the Refiner, my Redeemer, my Strength, the One Who Saves, and we have been working on these things together.

I journal about what the Holy Spirit shows me, about what parts convict me/bother me, and it has really shaped my prayer life. If you have time to write down some thoughts/prayers I encourage you to do so!

Since "all scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work"( 2 Timothy 3:16-17) view these "definitions" as a test, as a training session. How are you doing?

Definitions from Proverbs -- Fool or Wise?

Part 1:

~Chapter 1~

vs. 5 "the wise listen and add to their learning"

vs. 7 " fools despise wisdom and discipline"

vs.22 "fools hate knowledge"

vs. 32 "the complacency of fools will destroy them"

~Chapter 9~

vs. 8 "rebuke a wise man and he will love you"

vs. 9 "Instruct a wise man and he will be

wiser still"

vs. 12 "If you are wise, your wisdom will reward

you; if you are a mocker,you alone will suffer."

vs. 13 " the woman Folly is loud; she is

undisciplined and without knowledge."

~Chapter 10~

vs. 1 " A foolish son brings grief to his mother"

vs. 1 "A wise son brings joy to his father"

vs. 5 "he who gathers crops in summer

is a wise son"

vs. 8 " A chattering fool comes to ruin"

vs. 8"the wise in heart accept commands"

vs. 10 " A chattering fool comes to ruin"

vs. 14 " wise men store up knowledge"

vs. 18 " whoever spreads slander is a fool"

vs. 19 "when words are many, sin is not

absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise"

vs. 21 " fools die for lack of judgement"

vs. 23 " A fool finds pleasure in evil conduct"

~Chapter 11~

vs. 29 "the fool will be servant to the wise"

vs. 30 "he who wins souls is wise"

~Chapter 12~

vs. 15a "the way of a fool seems right to him..."

vs. 15b "... but a wise man listens to advice."

vs. 16 " A fool shows his annoyance at once, but

a prudent man overlooks an insult."

vs. 23 " the heart of fools blurts out folly"

~Chapter 13~

vs. 1 " a wise son heeds his father's instruction"

vs. 10 "wisdom is found is those who take advice"

vs. 16 " a fool exposes his folly"

vs. 19 " fools detest turning from evil"

vs. 20 " a companion of fools suffers harm"

vs. 20 " he who walks with the wise grows wise"

~Chapter 14~

vs. 1a "A wise woman builds her house..."

vs. 1b " ... but with her own hands the foolish

tears hers down."

vs. 3 " a fool's talk brings a rod to his back"

vs. 3 " the lips of the wise protect them"

vs. 7 " you will not find knowledge on his

(the foolish man's) lips"

vs. 9 " fools mock at making amends for sin"

vs. 16 " a fool is hotheaded and reckless"

vs. 16 " a wise man fears the LORD and shuns evil"

~Chapter 15~

vs. 2 "the tongue of the wise commends knowledge"

vs. 2 " the mouth of fools gushes folly"

vs. 5 " a fool spurns his father's discipline"

vs. 20 " a foolish man despises his mother"

vs. 20 " a wise son brings joy to his father"

~Chapter 16~

vs. 23 " a wise man's heart guides his mouth, and his lips promote instruction."

It is humbling.

Part 2 of Definitions of Fool/Wise coming soon.